Choosing the Treatment is Difficult

Have been diagnosed with stage 2, Gleeson score 3+4 20% high grade and a PSA 0.93. I’m trying to work out which treatment would be best for me. Surgery and the problem is gone hopefully but there’s the incontinence to deal with. I would like to hear from guys who have been through radiation and what that was like and also someone who had surgery and what the recovery process was and how it affected you.