This is tough

Hello friends

I’m five weeks post RARP surgery and struggling with continence, work, identity, emotions. My surgery didn’t go to plan – my ureters were detached during surgery but that wasn’t picked up until the next day. One surgery to put catheters in each kidney followed by another surgery to put stents in the ureters to secure them to the bladder. Five weeks later the stents have come out of the kidneys and I’m basically where I should have been five weeks ago. I’m tired and wondering if it was worth the pain..